
How Screen Time Might Affect Your Toddler’s Development
, by Ester Hilmarsdottir, 4 min reading time

, by Ester Hilmarsdottir, 4 min reading time
Let’s face it – as a parent, sometimes handing your toddler a tablet feels like a lifesaver. Whether you’re trying to make dinner or grab a quick moment of peace, it’s an easy solution. But could this digital babysitter be doing more harm than good? Recent research suggests that too much screen time might be linked to developmental delays in toddlers, especially when it comes to things like communication and problem-solving.
So why does too much screen time affect toddlers? Well, the answer is pretty simple: kids learn best from real-life interactions. They need to hear and *practice* language, not just passively listen. Dr. John Hutton, a pediatrician at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, says that when kids are watching screens, they’re not getting the chance to engage in those important back-and-forth conversations with adults or other kids. They might hear lots of words, but they’re not getting to *use* them, which is key for learning how to talk!
Screens can also take away from playtime, which is essential for developing fine motor skills. Swiping on a screen doesn’t help your child practice using their hands like stacking blocks or playing with toys does. And let’s not forget about social skills—kids need face-to-face time with real people to learn how to communicate, read facial expressions, and build relationships. A character on a screen just can’t teach that.
There’s another side to this story that’s all about feelings. When toddlers use screens as a way to cope with boredom or frustration, they miss out on learning how to handle their emotions on their own. According to Dr. Hutton, allowing kids to be a little bored or uncomfortable sometimes helps them develop creativity and resilience. In other words, letting your child figure out how to deal with those big feelings without reaching for a screen can be a major developmental win!
Toddlers need time to play! Whether it's coloring, building, or running around, physical activities are crucial for developing motor skills. Dr. Jason Nagata, a pediatrician from the University of California, San Francisco, says that passive screen time doesn’t give kids the same chance to move around and explore their environment. Kids need time to climb, throw, and interact with their world, which helps build both their brains and their bodies.
Every family is different, and life can get busy. But experts recommend finding ways to balance screen time with real-world activities. If you have to use screens, try to make it an interactive experience. For example, video chats with grandma or watching educational shows together can help make screen time more engaging and social.
Dr. Nagata also encourages parents to offer non-digital activities when possible—think puzzles, books, or building blocks. Not only will these kinds of toys entertain your toddler, but they’ll also help them develop important skills while keeping their minds and hands busy.